A flower doesn't love you or hate you, it just exists.

There's something magical about Oaxaca and the vibe of the people.

There's a victory in letting go of your expectations.

My whole life I've been a seeker, searching for something.

There are life lessons that can be derived from reality television.

Yeah, it's disturbing when someone has no self-awareness.

I want to have compassion for my characters - I feel like I am the characters when I'm writing them.

I think movie sets can often be stressful, and people take themselves very seriously.

I'm attracted to polarizing characters who upend the civility of life.

People sometimes seem surprised because often, you know, you know, there's a lot of tortured characters in the stuff I write.

I used to go online all the time, and then I had to stop myself... because I'm a writer, and it's like: to have a procrastination tool, like, within my computer... it was just getting too hairy.

As a director or writer, you have to be so controlling.

If I have a male protagonist, it's a studio movie, and if it's a female protagonist, it's an indie movie. That's just how it is. It's not about the studios. It's about America and who goes to see movies. Women are interested in men and women, and men aren't interested in the woman's story. They just aren't.

You watch stuff like 'The Real Housewives' and you start to think, 'We're all so vacuous! Is there any nobility to any of these people?' But then you look out into the world, and there are people who are doing cool stuff with their lives.